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We've spoken to the experts to get their top tips on making your dating profile work for you. After all, it’s not always easy to big yourself up without sounding conceited or (even worse) desperate.
But did you know that one in three couples now find love online? In this fast-paced, social media-dependent world, we rely on the Internet for everything – from keeping in touch with old school friends and career networking to ordering takeaways and finding a cat-sitter for that weekend away.
If you are 40ish (and beyond) and brand new to online dating, you are probably incapable of truly comprehending the depths of the insanity. But this is one of those experiences that you cannot fully appreciate until you are immersed in it.
My hope is that this story answers some basics for those contemplating jumping into the increasingly murky online dating waters! I would strongly recommend that you get very real with yourself and do some soul searching before you move forward with setting up an online/app dating profile.
Don’t choose a picture where you are not the main focal point.
‘If a dating profile asks what you’re looking for, don’t give too much detail.
‘Reading other peoples’ profiles might give you ideas for things to include in your own one.’ Wouldn’t you know, profile photos that demonstrate you playing your guitar or downhill skiing – even if your face isn’t showing – get more messages.
Avoid negative tones and always be positive about yourself. You wouldn’t want a future employer to read anything negative, so why would you want a potential partner to read anything that isn’t positive?
How busy are you with your job, kids, ex, travel, hobbies? Potential Catagories:a) Only looking for sex (Casual sex or an official FWB)Note: if you are catagory (a), toss up some shirtless selfies and/or other sexy photos, include your weight and height, and state that you are looking for “fun/NSA/a hook-up.” You are done. Except for the scammer info, be wary of them.b) Just looking to text people because you aren’t really ready to meet anyone in person (There are a lot of these people out there, though I have yet to see this on anyone’s profile.It’s possible that you will eventually move on to (c-f), so I think it’s fine to be this option until you are ready to move to another catagory.c) Just looking to meet people (Definitely do not want anything serious and have no plans of dating someone more than a handful of times, if that.)d) Looking for friends (I’m not a fan of this approach, but some people like it.)e) Looking for a short term relationshipf) Looking for a long term relationshipg) Unsure of what you are looking for Note: I will cut you a bit of slack if you sincerely do not know what you want.Some folks have to meet/interact with people and actually experience online dating to get their heads around it.’ If someone mentions anything cynical about relationships or comments about their “annoying” ex, move along. A long and very detailed profile could be an indication of what’s in store when you meet them in person. Now you know how to make your dating profile stand out amongst the crowd, why not check out our round-up of the best online dating websites to sign up to? These are the best apps for no strings sex – hello Tinder! Then chances are you’ll related to these 12 soul destroying things you only know if you sign up for internet dating.Whatever you choose, just follow the advice above and chances are you’ll find what you’re looking for.