Dating child men
I used to think the only way I'd know if a man was going to be a potential good stepfather was to see him interact with my child.I've since learned to be careful to strike the balance of when to introduce a man into my son's life.And if they do admit to something they did, it's never their fault, of course, because they’re always the victim. Honestly, this isn’t meant to be a superficial judgment of one’s clothing, but I believe every grown-ass man needs at least one suit.Not only did none of the man child dudes that I’ve dated didn’t own a single proper suit, but one of them didn’t even know how to tie a tie. He was literally Googling how to tie a tie before meeting my parents for the first time.That’s actually the one I married and spent far too much time dressing for certain occasions during our marriage. and several ties that I'm sure he'll never wear again.Listen, I love to drink and stay up until dawn indulging in less than savory behavior.It’s when you realize that you gave 100 percent to something where the other person only gave 30 percent, because that’s all their man child ways will allow, that you feel foolish and even embarrassed for being so dumb, for lack of a better word. Check out our new podcast, I Want It That Way, which delves into the difficult and downright dirty parts of a relationship, and find more on our Soundcloud page.
And if you don’t have a passion, you still need a damn job… The worst part about dating a man child is that eventually you feel like a fool…
But I also know that you can’t do that every night of the week, because, well, unless you have a trust fund and zero responsibilities, life doesn’t permit such things. That was a concept that none of them could really grasp. I’m usually fairly laid back and not much pisses me off ― except social injustices, of course.
So while I always had fun with these man child guys, at some point you realize that doing pickle back shots at 4 a.m. But over the course of my relationships with these man children I was forced to nag, like really nag, because OMG dudes just wouldn’t listen or do what they were supposed to do!
Aside from the man child I married who was killer in the sack (yes, I can give him that and actually may have a lot to do with why I married him), the other ones were pretty selfish in bed.
I mean, they made an effort, but they made an effort in the way my first boyfriend did ― a sort of half-hearted attempt in which they didn’t really care if I climaxed, but they pretended like they did.